Dating for people with mental illness
dealing with mental illness is no fun unless perhaps it is nymphomania Would you date Vincent Van gough if he were still alive?Some of the most creative and beautifil people on this planet were mentally ill.I may not be “normal,” and yes, I found a spoon in my pillowcase last night, but I’m incredible.And I won’t settle for someone who sees me as any less.But, for Lynne, who was diagnosed with depression, anxiety and other mental disorders at 19, dating invariably ends in disaster.But about a month ago, Lynne began seeing a 53-year-old man she met through a dating Web site designed specifically for people with mental illness.The site — True — was launched last year by an Albuquerque social worker to help people like Lynne find healthy relationships. "The Web site, because it caters to people with mental illness, you go in knowing that up front," Lynne said. You don't feel threatened by what the other person might think." Lynne was married once, briefly.
People are allowed to want someone “normal,” just as I’m allowed to be upset that I can’t be that woman.
Unfortunately it comes down to fear, alot of people dont like to talk about mental illness, dont know actual statitics but its said most people will experience some form of mental illness throughout their life. "He said, "We fill a bathtub with water and offer a teaspoon, a teacup and a bucket, then we ask them to empty the tub."I said "So ... I would choose NOT to date a person what a significant mental illness..... I would be worried about things in the relationship . I cant see why having a mental defect should be a problem.
When you meet someone we all hope we will be judged on the whole package and not on one small bit of your personality, but sadly life doesnt always work out like that. A normal person would choose the bucket because it is bigger? I would probably need to be educated on the illness she has so i can possibly help. HI, I SUFFER FROM BIPOLAR & HAV A LADY FRIEND WITH SAME BUT A BIT MORE SO, IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO GET HER TO SPEEK BUT SEEMS TO COM OUT OF HERSELF WEN WE R IN MY PLACE, I HAV FALLIN IN LUV WITH HER & I WORRY ABOUT HER WEN SHE GOES HOME, SHE KEEPS SAYING WE R JUST FRIENDS, BUT SHE KISSES & CUDDLES ME, I'M NOT GOING TO TRY & GET HER INTO BED, BUT I WUD LUV TO LOOK AFTER HER, IL JUST HAV TO GO WITH TH FLOW I SOPOSE, Hahaha I hear that I have a saying that I tell all mfkers who say they are normal "Its the people who say they are normal that peek into your windows at nite time"I belive completly in what you said.
"I've been single most of my life for that reason," she said.
Elizabeth Barrett, who created the site with a partner in Denver, Colo., said she observed from her work with people with mental illness that those in strong relationships are more likely to thrive. "They tend to stay out of the hospital." Couples in which both partners struggle with mental illness can share their experiences and help keep each other out of trouble.Navigating the dating scene is tricky for anyone — but how is it different when you have a mental condition like bipolar or schizophrenia?